What a delight I have for you today! I reached out to Theresa of Montessori in Real Life to
ask if I could interview her for the blog and she said “yes”. For those
that haven’t yet discovered Theresa, she was a Montessori toddler
teacher and now full time mama to the lovely D (and expecting their
second child very soon). I love following her on Instagram where she shares snippets of their home life and the simplicity, calm and focus are truly inspiring.
So today we get to learn more about what it’s like to be a
Montessori teacher applying the Montessori principles at home with your
own child. I love how Theresa speaks of their daily walks, where they
have no timeline, simply time for D to splash in puddles and explore. I
am sure you will be inspired.
Plus you will definitely want to check out this post about how they’ve adapted the IKEA kitchen to transform it from a play kitchen into a functional kitchen for S.
Thank you so much Theresa for letting us take a peek into
your home and learning more about raising toddlers in a Montessori way.
1. Who lives in your home and where are you located?
My husband and I live in Seattle, Washington with our
19-month-old daughter, D, and our vizlsa. We will welcome a new family
member, a baby boy, at the end of May!
2. Before having D, I understand you were an AMS toddler teacher. How do you find applying the Montessori principles at home with your own child versus when you were in the classroom before kids?
Since becoming a parent, I have realized that it is much
easier to stick with routines in a classroom, when there is more
structure and a formal schedule. At home, there is flexibility in our
schedule and we go on short outings most days, so our routine changes a
bit too. I would also say that the role of “mama” versus “guide” has
come with a lot more self-doubt, emotion, and compassion for other
parents! Though my confidence in Montessori education hasn’t wavered, I
empathize with parents’ challenges in implementing every principle at
home.
3. What is currently your favourite thing to do at home with D?
Currently, reading. We read so many books! We have started
going to the library together to keep up with her passion, and it has
been fun for both of us to expand beyond board books to larger picture
books. At least a few times a day, we curl up together on the couch and
read a couple of books (she usually has a favorite of the day or week
that we just read on repeat).
Before nap and bed, we read together in her bedroom nook,
and then after she wakes up, in her floor bed. She never goes to sleep
without a book by her side! 🙂
4. How do you set up your home to help apply Montessori at home? And your cosiest spot in your home?
I try to make as much of our house toddler-friendly and
toddler-accessible as possible. Instead of having a designated playroom,
D’s furniture and materials are embedded in our living areas, where we
spend our time together. For example, by the front door, she has a small
step stool and low hooks for taking on and off shoes and coats.
In our living room, she has a couple of shelves with her
materials and books. In our dining room/kitchen, she has a small table
and chair, as well as a kitchen and cupboard with her own dishes and
supplies. As I walk around our house, I am constantly asking myself “How
can I set up this space so D is better able to help herself and feel
more independent?”
Our coziest area is definitely our living room. We spend
most of our day there, playing, reading, and working. I love the
fireplace in the winter and our forest views outside. She loves being
able to access all of her materials in one room, working beside me or
independently.
5. To give an idea of a “usual” day in the life of your family, do you have any fun rituals or rhythms you’d like to share?
One of our favorite rituals is our (almost) daily D-led
nature walks. We live near a forest, and I love seeing the sights and
sounds that grab D’s attention. We don’t set out with an agenda or a
place we need to get to, so she can stop at every puddle and pick up
every rock she wants to along the way. Seeing her pure joy reminds me to
appreciate all the little things.
6. What’s one way you bring peace and calm into your home?
I really enjoy doing yoga, or simply stretching, at home,
and have started inviting D to join me. She calls it “stetch” and will
start rolling around on the yoga mat with her legs in the air, or just
sit beside me. I find it provides a few minutes of calm and mindfulness
to our busy day, that we all need more than we realize!
7. What’s one question you’d love to answer? And then we’d love to hear your answer…
“What is an element of Montessori parenting that was surprisingly easy and surprisingly difficult to implement in your home?”
I have found it both easy and enjoyable to set up our
Montessori environment at home. By observing D at work, I’ve been
pleasantly surprised by how apparent her interests and needs are. From
creating and rotating materials to trying different furniture
arrangements, I love it all.
In contrast, as someone who moves and talks quickly, I
sometimes find it difficult to give D the time and patience she needs to
complete a challenging task. I have to remind myself to slow down and
to give her that time to focus and work through a new task. It’s always
worth it!
