30.8.21

Catherine L’Ecuyer: águila contra los mitos educativos


Catherine L’Ecuyer es una mujer valiente. Lleva ocho años fustigando mitos pedagógicos desde las principales cabeceras de nuestro país: La Vanguardia, El Mundo y El País, y lo hace con una calma y un rigor que exasperan a los partidarios de las cavernas educativas. Sus libros están traducidos a 8 idiomas en 65 países.

Por: Andreu Navarra

Su libro Educar en el asombro acaba de alcanzar su edición número 29 en su versión en español. Es, sencillamente, espectacular.¿Cómo se gestó ese libro? “En 2011”, explica Catherine, “tuve un grave accidente de coche mientras estaba esperando a mi cuarto hijo. Un choque frontal me dejó con el saco amniótico fisurado, inmovilizada durante los 6 meses restantes del embarazo. Es durante ese tiempo que escribí Educar en el asombro. Yo nunca pensé que el libro iba a tener tanta repercusión.

Todo empezó con una Contra en La Vanguardia, que un profesor de educación propuso a Ima Sanchís después de haberse leído el libro. Le dijo que era una revolución educativa, y ella accedió a entrevistarme. Ese día recibí 20,000 visitas en mi blog y las librerías empezaron a pedir el libro en toda España. En ese momento, yo no venía del gremio, era una persona ajena al ámbito educativo, mi análisis no partía de los esquemas tradicionales; mi experiencia venía 1) de la literatura clásica y de los estudios científicos que había leído y 2) de la observación de mis hijos y de mi experiencia como madre a tiempo completo. El libro es el resultado de un trabajo de investigación en la literatura científica y clásica en el ámbito de la psicología, la pediatría y la neurociencia, la educación y la filosofía. La pregunta de partida es ¿qué es lo que mueve el niño a aprender? Parto de la respuesta de los griegos (Platón, Aristóteles…), luego enlazo con lo que dicen los estudios científicos, y finalmente enlazo con mi experiencia, a partir de la observación. Podríamos decir que el libro consiste en compartir mi intuición maternal, en la medida en que esa intuición está respaldada por el rigor de los estudios científicos.

De hecho, el comentario que más escucho en mis conferencias es: “Dices lo que siempre he pensado, pero no sabía como argumentarlo”. En realidad, no digo nada nuevo u original, solo explicito lo que he “descubierto”, en un lenguaje sencillo.”

Catherine L’Ecuyer ha dedicado buena parte de su vida académica a la figura de la pedagoga María Montessori: “En 2014, publiqué un artículo científico en una revista académica suiza para fundamentar la propuesta de la educación en el asombro. Después de la publicación del artículo, me fijé en el nombre de la persona que me aceptó el artículo y le contacté para pedirle si aceptaba ser el director de mis tesis de doctorado. José Ignacio Murillo, el director del grupo Mente Cerebro de la UNAV, aceptó. Inicialmente, quería profundizar en la propuesta de la educación en el asombro, pero en el verano 2015 descubrí a Maria Montessori más a fondo y pensé “esa mujer, ya ha escrito todo sobre lo que estoy investigando, mejor no reinvento la rueda y hago mi doctorado sobre su propuesta en vez de sobre la mía. En 2019, presenté mi tesis de doctorado sobre la relación entre Montessori y Rousseau. Llevo 5 años estudiando los escritos de esa pedagoga, es un pozo sin fondo.”

L’Ecuyer defiende que el pensamiento de María Montessori ha sido simplificado y manipulado para desvirtuarlo y adaptarlo a direcciones que no hubiera suscrito.

L’Ecuyer defiende que el pensamiento de María Montessori ha sido simplificado y manipulado para desvirtuarlo y adaptarlo a direcciones que no hubiera suscrito: “Muy pocas personas la entienden. No creo que haya una persona en el ámbito educativo tan maltratada y tan malinterpretada como Maria Montessori. Se la incluye en el saco del Romanticismo educativo, en la línea de Rousseau, Pestalozzi y Froebel. Pero ella discrepaba radicalmente con Rousseau.

Su herencia intelectual se encuentra en Itard y Séguin, quienes daban importancia a las experiencias sensoriales en la etapa infantil como base para la educación intelectual. Rousseau despreciaba la educación intelectual, hasta llegó a decir que odiaba los libros. Montessori habla de forma muy despectiva de Rousseau, lamenta que se la asocie con su “historieta romántica”, refiriéndose a Émile. Émile es la historia ficticia de un ciudadano creado por Rousseau para encajar en la sociedad que describe en El contrato social. No es un tratado educativo (él mismo lo confiesa), es la continuación de su visión política. Es decir que, para Rousseau, primero viene la sociedad, y luego viene el niño, que hemos de diseñar -vía la educación- para poder hacerle encajar en esa sociedad. No es un enfoque respetuoso con el niño, es todo lo contrario. Si nos fijamos, hay un grado de manipulación y de conductismo sensorial brutal en Émile. Montessori, en cambio, tiene un enfoque teleológico del niño, que tiene su origen en Aristóteles. Acabamos de publicar un artículo académico que explica eso en más detalles.”

Le pregunto a Catherine con qué figura histórica se hubiera ido de copas. Responde sin dudar que con Maria Montessori, porque le preguntaría si está de acuerdo con lo que publica sobre ella y su método.

"Hay demasiada gente motivada por conseguir ovaciones repitiendo los mismos mantras desde hace década. Eso no es progreso, eso es borreguismo."

Otra línea fundamental de su trabajo es el desenmascaramiento de los mitos educativos, como por ejemplo la estimulación temprana, los neuromitos o los tecnomitos que rodean la digitalización de las aulas. En un artículo que le encargó el Cerlalc del Unesco en 2019, detalla 6 de los “tecnomitos” muy difundidos en el ámbito educativo. En este sentido, sus opiniones vuelven a ser sólidas y originales: “El dispositivo digital no es el problema en sí. Pero usarlo en las aulas es síntoma de un mal muy grande. No sabemos cuál es el “para qué” y el “por qué” de la educación. Nunca ha habido tanta educación en las aulas (métodos, herramientas, protocolos, didáctica, etc.), pero nunca ha habido tan poca en los alumnos. Hemos perdido de vista la razón de ser de la educación, y con ello hemos perdido de vista la teleología del ser humano. En el pensamiento moderno, no hay teleología, no hay actividad perfectiva, no hay propósito, no hay naturaleza; hay libertad entendida como indeterminación, entendida como la creación continua de un abanico infinito de posibilidades con las que no queremos comprometernos. El ser humano es fluido, no tiene naturaleza que marca la hoja de ruta de la educación.

"El dispositivo digital no es el problema en sí. Pero usarlo en las aulas es síntoma de un mal muy grande."

La educación actual, obsesionada por el igualitarismo, por la militancia social y por el antiintectualismo, tiene sus raíces en Rousseau. Montessori trae frescura en el debate estéril enfrascado entre la instrucción directa y el aprendizaje por descubrimiento puro, entre el aprendizaje pasivo y el activo. Nos recuerda que el niño no crea la realidad, la descubre. Por eso mi segundo libro se llama Educar en la realidad, quise dejar claro que el asombro no ocurre en el vacío, lo que asombra es la belleza de la realidad. Y para asombrarse ante lo real, el niño necesita una educación que le traiga estructura externa, para ayudarle a ordenar su cabeza. Montessori nos recuerda que no es lo mismo un aprendizaje en el que el niño es protagonista, que uno en el que el niño cae en un activismo sin propósito; que uno en el que el niño es pasivo, que uno en el que escucha atentamente sin moverse. Montessori es, ahora, más actual que nunca.”

"Montessori nos recuerda que no es lo mismo un aprendizaje en el que el niño es protagonista, que uno en el que el niño cae en un activismo sin propósito."

Le planteo que haría si fuera ministra de Educación. Se ríe de ello, no es una política, dice. Si te comprometes con un bando, ya no puedes opinar libremente. Como siempre, su respuesta es frontal: “Digo lo que pienso, y cuando alguien me coarta a decir otra cosa, digo lo que pienso con más fuerza. No puedo soportar las presiones populares, los intereses económicos, los juegos del poder, el políticamente correcto, el corporativismo o el “quedar bien”, etc. Hablamos mucho de “progreso”, pero son precisamente todos esos males que impiden el verdadero progreso. El verdadero progreso no es externo, tiene como inicio y fin a la persona. Y en la educación, eso ocurre a través de la actividad perfectiva.” Y llegamos al meollo: “El principal problema de la educación hoy en España es que está demasiado politizado. Falta mentalidad científica, rigor, amor a la verdad. Hay demasiados gurús iluminados, conferenciantes que repiten como loros lo que dicen otros, o que copian ideas de libros americanos que aún no están traducidos. Hay demasiada gente motivada por conseguir ovaciones repitiendo los mismos mantras desde hace década. Eso no es progreso, eso es borreguismo. Obviamente, no todo el mundo hace eso, pero pasa.”

"La cultura del esfuerzo en el colegio, es un reflejo de la cultura del esfuerzo en el trabajo."

Una de las obsesiones entre quienes intentan decir algo con pies y cabeza sobre nuestro sistema educativo es la comparativa entre países que lo hacen bien y países que lo hacen mal. Catherine L’Ecuyer dice no tener una respuesta para esa especie de competencia entre estados: “No soy una experta en comparar sistemas educativos”, aclara. “Para saber más sobre eso podríamos preguntar a mi amiga Inger Enkvist. Lo que sé es que existe una simbiosis entre el sistema educativo de un país y su cultura. La cultura del esfuerzo en el colegio, es un reflejo de la cultura del esfuerzo en el trabajo. Los padres y los maestros transmiten lo que tienen. La cultura del trabajo bien hecho, de la rendición de cuenta, de la excelencia… Hay que ser consciente que los niños imitan lo que ven, y si ven que salir adelante con una chapuza o una mentira no tiene consecuencia y está bien visto (mientras no te pillen), pues eso tiene unas consecuencias sobre la educación. Si ven que está mejor valorado salir en un Reality Show que aprobar la selectividad, eso también tiene consecuencias.”

Catherine L’Ecuyer bulle de proyectos, podríamos decir que se trata de una mente hiperactiva: “Ahora mismo acabo de publicar tres artículos académicos. Uno sobre la relación entre Montessori y la educación nueva en la revista inglesa European Review of History, otro (“El enfoque teleológico en Montessori y sus consecuencias”, con José Ignacio Murillo) en la Revista Española de Pedagogía, y un tercero sobre la propuesta montessoriana vista desde el prisma de los últimos avances en neurociencia (con Javier Bernacer y Fran Güell) en la revista americana Mind, Brain and Education. Estoy dando voz, también, a los padres que no están de acuerdo con la digitalización de las aulas, acabo de firmar con 100 expertos y asociaciones americanas un manifiesto al respecto. Estoy también revisando la traducción al inglés y al francés de mi segundo libro sobre las nuevas tecnologías, Educar en la realidad. La edición inglesa saldrá en un mes y la francesa en 2021. Y estoy convirtiendo mi tesis de doctorado en un libro, sobre Montessori, que se publicará en 2021. En el medio de todo eso, doy conferencias, de momento por zoom (de forma excepcional) sobre la importancia de la atención en la educación.”

"Cuando tuve a mi segundo hijo, trabajaba tantas horas que llegué a la sala de parto con el portátil por debajo del brazo."

Le pregunto a Catherine L’Ecuyer quién es. Cómo es posible que una mujer canadiense, consultora en empresas, termine poniendo el mundo de la educación española patas arriba, con esta mezcla de verdad divulgativa y rigor documental que caracteriza sus artículos y ensayos: “No he planificado hacer lo que estoy ahora haciendo. Estudié derecho en Canadá, trabajé durante 4 años en un bufete internacional en Montreal, y después en una empresa de telecomunicación cotizada en bolsa. Me vine a España en 2002 para estudiar un máster en administración y dirección de empresas. Fue enamorarme de un español que me llevó a rechazar una oferta en un banco de inversión, Lehman Brothers, en Londres, en 2004, y a optar por quedarme a vivir en Barcelona. Me casé en 2004 al acabar el máster y empecé a tener hijos mientras trabajaba como consultora de alta dirección. Cuando tuve a mi segundo hijo, trabajaba tantas horas que llegué a la sala de parto con el portátil por debajo del brazo. Eso fue una llamada de atención potente. En los años después solo acepté contratos y trabajos puntuales que me permitían cuidar de mis hijos y llevarlos al colegio con 3 años cumplidos (algunos fueron al colegio incluso más tarde, con 5 años). Es en 2006, a raíz de esa decisión, que empecé a investigar sobre la teoría del apego, las teorías de aprendizaje y el efecto de las pantallas en la primera infancia, entre muchos otros temas relacionados con la psicología y la educación en la primera infancia. En 2008, la universidad donde daba clases sobre la teoría de las organizaciones me planteo cursar un máster en investigación, lo que hice. Ese máster me dio herramientas para profundizar en los temas educativos que estaba investigando”. Asombroso. No sé qué más podría añadir.

Es posible que este conocimiento de la vida real tenga algo que ver con el valor añadido de la obra de L’Ecuyer. Entre pedagogos engañosos y académicos que jamás han pisado la calle o el aula, no avanzábamos mucho. Catherine L’Ecuyer ha hecho entrar mucho aire fresco en las discusiones académicas. Se nota que no se debe a nadie, que no cae en el provincianismo mesiánico que tanto abunda en el país. ¿Qué consejo le daría Catherine L’Ecuyer a una joven profesora española que empezara a ejercer el próximo 1 de septiembre? “No me gustan los consejos. Le diría que la profesión docente no es agradecida, y es cada vez más exigente. Le diría que su trabajo tiene unas repercusiones infinitas y le daría las gracias por su dedicación.” Así terminaba nuestra conversación con una de las ensayistas más incisivas e inteligentes de nuestro panorama, que nos ha contado por primera vez detalles de su vida un tanto novelesca.

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28.8.21

How to Give a Fabulous Lesson Like a Montessori Teacher

 

Before giving a work to a child aged 2 to 6, a Montessori teacher almost always gives a “lesson” to demonstrate the activity while the child watches. Montessori believed strongly in the importance of good modeling, writing:

“The lessons, then, are individual, and brevity must be one of their chief characteristics. Dante gives excellent advice to teachers when he says, ‘Let thy words be counted.’ The more carefully we cut away useless words, the more perfect will become the lesson.” (from The Montessori Method)

Five Rules of the Road

  1. Remember to sit side by side next to the child rather than across the table. This allows the child to see the work from your point of view. We often recommend that you sit on the child's left side if the child is right-handed.

  2. Let your fingers do most of the talking. By speaking very quietly and only when necessary, you will be directing your child’s attention to your hands and how they are interacting with the materials.

  3. Model activities from left to right. This is intentional. It prepares a child for reading and writing, which is also oriented from left to right.

  4. Exaggerate your movements especially regarding care of the materials. If you want your child to care for the work and not be careless, make sure that you also model this. Hug the materials if you like as you get them out. They are special.

  5. Note that formal lessons are not always necessary. Use your own instincts for when to cut a lesson short or allow a child to work even without a lesson at all. If the child is engaged, draw it out a bit. If you are quickly losing interest, encourage the child to take a turn. Toddlers especially often cannot sit through long formal lessons. For a toddler, the modeling should be very brief.

Keep Your Attention on the Child

Maria cautions us to do our best to remove our own egos and personalities from the lesson. When the focus remains on engaging the child in the material, the formal lesson will be most effective. However, as an experienced teacher, I can tell you that it is also important to establish a very real, physical human connection with the child...otherwise, a robot might as well be giving the lessons!

Children who receive more eye contact and verbalization from their parents develop better interpersonal skills and have higher vocabularies.

For example, current research tells us that lower student-teacher ratios are all around better for children in the classroom because there is more adult-child personal interaction and attention.

We also know that children who receive more eye contact and verbalization from their parents develop better interpersonal skills and have higher vocabularies.

You might note that a typical Montessori classroom has a fairly high student-teacher ratio, and this is because we are not providing a teacher-directed environment but a child-led environment.

The Child Leads

In an authentic Montessori classroom, you would see a lot of student-to-student interaction. We believe that even more important than the proper lesson is the role that the children play in their interactions with each other as role models who learn from each other. The way the entire classroom functions is dependent upon these human connections.

As with anything, it's a balance. Don't let these lesson-giving "rules" deter you from having a deep conversation with your child about the work, and keep your formal lessons strictly to a minimum when working directly with concrete materials to teach a very specific skill.


Homeschool Pro Tip: Be a Mentor, Not a "Teacher.”

 

Your child doesn't need a teacher.

She needs you to join the journey. Acknowledge that your role is to be a mentor, guide, or facilitator. Without this shift in mindset, it is easy to get trapped in a spiral of insecurity.

Try to think of yourself more as a mentor to your child - that “educational consultant” who is available to provide resources and allow opportunities to visit interesting places in the world. 

You are not going to directly feed her mind with knowledge.

You are a protector of your child's natural inclination to learn.

Your child knows what to do already! She is programmed biologically to be interested in life and new skills and to explore.

Your job is to scaffold her education not based on what she is "supposed to be" learning but by celebrating her current strengths and helping to nurture what you see as yet undeveloped.

This may sound funny, but the hard part about homeschooling is not finding the right curriculum or planning or finding resources - it's tuning into your child and allowing the development to unfold while you observe and offer support.

Let her lead.

Push aside your own worries and insecurities. You were meant to be your child’s mentor

Psst: that’s what a real teacher is!


7 Things You Didn't Know About Montessori Homeschooling

 

Homeschooling in general is so misunderstood, and when I am out and about with my children in public during the school day, we are often bombarded with curious (and sometimes guarded) questions from strangers.

Add in the word “Montessori” and people tend to be exceptionally confused about this lifestyle choice.

Here are some things about Montessori homeschooling that I want the world to know. Not just becuase I won’t have to keep answering the questions but because if you’re here on my website, it’s because you’re considering - or at least curious about - this method of education as it works in real life, as revealed by a real homeschooling mom.

1. We don’t really lesson plan

Is that shocking? I know it’s a shift from a more traditional view of “school”. Maria Montessori herself proposed something strikingly similar to unschooling. Instead of scripting detailed lesson plans ahead of time and following a curriculum, she suggested that we follow the child instead.

So here’s what we do instead. We have a general scope and sequence of concepts and skills in mind or on paper that are appealing to young children. We have a method for how to convey those concepts and help children refine those skills.

Instead of making decisions about what to teach when, we turn our attention to the child. We make note of learning opportunities, and then we seize them.

This doesn’t mean we don’t make any plans. We definitely do - mostly to document our homeschooling journey and get that learning inspiration down on paper.

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2. We spend a ton of time outdoors

It’s true. All of the homeschoolers I know center their weekly rhythm around time spent in nature and/or at playgrounds hanging out together. Instead of a 20 minute or even an hour-long recess, we spend a half-day.

It’s amazing what children can learn from one another just by socializing in an unstructured play setting for several hours. Nature-based learning goes hand-in-hand with any Montessori materials used at home.

Extended playtime outdoors also allows the parent ample time for strengthening the adult relationships that happen during a typical homeschool park day.

3. The School Year Is Year-Round

In Montessori, we see learning as something that happens naturally in a child’s life. It doesn’t start and stop…not ever!

So if children are learning all the time and we are educating our children at home, that means that “school” time happens while eating breakfast, while reading stories, while playinng outside, while snacking, while building forts, while laying about in the grass looking up at the sky…you get it, right?

School is just life. We don’t have to break it into “on” hours and “off” hours. This means that weekends and winter break and summers are just part of the same old regular life-long learning process.

4. the classroom is a different beast

It’s not even apples to oranges. More like oranges to broccoli. Homeschooling and classroom teaching could not be more different, and every other former school-teaching homeschooler I’ve ever met agrees with me.

When educating our own children, our roles as parents come first, and thus the way our children behave and the way we present information to them is different from the way we would guide a group of children who ultimately go home to their own parents.

5. DIY Montessori Materials are the real deal

When Maria Montessori taught in her Casa dei Bambini in Rome, Italy in 1907, she didn’t go peruse a fancy catalog and purchase all of the materials that are used in Montessori classrooms today.

She Did (most of) It Herself with what she had on hand. She painted block towers a variety of colors before settling on pink. She used silk thread and wool-spinning spindles to create work that appealed to the children. Her materials were handmade and beautifully imperfect.

When you take the time and energy and love to create your own materials for your children, you value them for all of their innovative teaching qualities, no matter how imperfect they may be.

6. our children don’t always do “shelf work”

Do you admire the #montessorishelfies online? Fab. Keep giving those posts hearts on Insta because taking the time to cultivate a shelf is a purposeful endeavor.

It might surprise you to hear how many children actually ignore the work on those shelves in favor of other real-life experiences like helping to prepare meals and going outside to garden. Imaginative pretend-play is also a very common and healthy part of any Montessori child’s life at home, and homeschooling often allows for the perfect balance of the two.

7. It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money

The actual Montessori method is so inherently flexible and adaptable that it is within reach of any income level.

When I was a homeschooler with very young children, I bought very, very few materials. I did have some DIY stuff from my kindergarten teaching days, and I did go shopping for basic supplies, like trays and baskets, at thrift stores.

Once a year in August during “back to school” season, I bought a big stash of art supplies during the 50% off sales that happen when children are officially in school. Otherwise, we truly did not invest in thousands of dollars of materials like you might see in a Montessori classroom. My home did not look like a classroom at all. And we were fine!

I promise you—with a little self-initiative, it can be done on a shoestring budget.


Making Space for You

 

When we take children seriously and treat them with respect, it becomes obvious that we owe them much more than just providing for their basic needs and teaching effective lessons. We owe them the gift of viewing, occasionally, our best selves. But are we even seeing ourselves at our best? 

We Can't Unlearn What We Now Know

The state of the world today can feel oppressive even to those of us who are privileged enough to be financially and emotionally stable. Everywhere we look, there is human suffering. Our life choices and experiences might be perceived differently in the current political climate. The more awareness brought to light of society’s ills, the more realizations we have of our own behaviors and also of those who have behaved disrespectfully toward our bodies, our minds, and our hearts. It hurts.

Minor incidents become painfully obvious - major incidents - in retrospect. Were we charged more money because of how we looked? Were we looked at or touched inappropriately? Can we sing Somewhere Over the Rainbow without thinking of the woman who suffered nonconsensual advances by those who brought her to the stage - oppression which ultimately lead to her death? We can’t. Rose colored glasses can’t exist. 

Neither, in the anger and frustration we are collectively experiencing, can much optimism for the future. And this is a problem. This is not an easy time to raise children. Our view of the world is shifting uncomfortably, and the more we engage in the fight for justice the more consumed we are by the limitations we encounter. Me, too, the whispers continue, volume increasing. Me, too. Me, too. In the roar, it is hard to listen to any other inner voice. 

Healing Starts With You

If this is a sea of troubled emotions that are currently washing over you, it is time to make room for inner healing and peace. We cannot give our children what they need until we have paid attention to own hearts. Are you making enough space for you? You might want to create a special place in your home for the conflict resolution that is so necessary for the survival of your spirit. Create a space for it so that you can acknowledge the suffering, make a commitment to addressing it, and look toward a future of peace. 
 

Your Peace Table

In Montessori circles, we often recommend using a peace table dedicated to expressing emotions and resolving conflict between two children. This is an idea that works very well because it adds a concrete plan of action to a voluntary emotional activity that is by nature abstract. It’s not just for children, however. It can work for you. 

  1. Designate a small part of your home you are willing to devote to peace. It might be an end table, a basket, or a corner of your dresser. It needs to be a place you will return to regularly.

  2. Decorate with a few beautiful items that you like to look at or hold. Ideas: a plant, prayer beads, a paper weight, a shell.

  3. Return to this space to breathe, meditate, journal, drink tea, or say a healing prayer for yourself and the world.

Raising children takes emotional energy. Let’s help make that energy calm, soothing, optimistic, and compassionate. Cultivating spaces for ourselves is just as important as it is for our children. You are worth it. Are you willing? 

Your Baby in Nature

 

It is vital that your child establish a loving connection to the planet on which we live. We all need clean, fresh air to breathe, exposure to a healthy amount of sunlight, and unpolluted food and water sources. Learning to care for our Earth begins in early childhood, and for babies, it is all about developing an appreciation for the myriad animals and plants that coexist with humans on our beautiful planet. 

Feeling a cool breeze, smelling the spicy-sweet foliage, and crawling or toddling about inspecting grass or bugs is like applying a natural salve to the troubled spirit. If you find yourself in a rut with a fussy baby, try going outside for a change of pace. Often, just being outdoors will calm a crying baby or stop a day full of tantrums in its tracks. 

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Since we are talking about babies + the great outdoors, make sure to always supervise your little one, making sure that what goes into the mouth is safe. Some common plants are toxic (learn the local ones in your area so you can watch for them) and many natural items have parts that can break off and be choked on. Always explore the wilderness with safety in mind. 

Without further ado, here are some fun, easy activities that will help your baby develop a strong relationship with Mother Nature. 

1. Feel the wind.

2. Crumble dry leaves near your young baby's ears so he can hear the crinkling sound.

3. Let your older baby pinch, poke, and rip dry leaves.  

4. Encourage your younger baby to grasp a short, smooth stick (but it's not for the mouth). 

5. Let your older baby watch you gather two sticks and tap them together to make a sound. 

6. Splash around in a puddle together. Dip your older baby's toes in if she likes it. 

7. Throw dry leaves or small pebbles into a babbling brook together. 

8. Let your older baby dig in the soil with a trowel.

9. Hold some soil up for your younger baby to smell. 

10. Spend time looking for and observing tiny insects like ants or beetles. 

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11. Feel the roughness or smoothness of tree bark. 

12. Water a plant with a watering can. Let your baby watch you. 

13. Take naptime outside in the shade. 

14. Read a story outside. Even better if it's a book about some aspect of nature! 

15. Pick a small, and very common flower to dissect - like a dandelion, fresh or dry. 

16. Listen to the birds chirping. Sprinkle some birdseed to attract them. 

17. Pick a few leaves from locally grown herbs and crush them in your hand. Let your baby smell them. 

18. Walk barefooted or crawl on short, freshly mowed grass. 

19. Gather a few items for a nature treasure basket to bring home (a pinecone, large stone, leaf). 

20. A tummytime picnic to strengthen those upper body muscles! Why not?! 

21. Learn the names of local flowers, herbs, plants, and trees in your area. Use these names often when out and about with your baby. 

22. Find a wiggling worm buried in the earth. Dig it up and then let your baby watch it wriggle back down into the soil. 

23. Go out in a light rain and stand under an umbrella. Listen to the patter of the drops overhead. Reach a hand out to feel them. 

24. Hang a windchime and visit it daily to listen to the wind making music for you. 

25. Turn over large stones to let your baby see what's underneath. 

26. Feel some soft moss or lichen with your fingertips. Your baby might enjoy this sensation on her toes. 

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Montessori: It's Not Just for Children!

Maria Montessori knew--and history and neuroscience have proven--that Scientific Pedagogy based on knowledge of the basic developmental traits of ALL human beings would change the lives of children for the better. Dozens of bloggers and scientists would confirm this! There’s no question that Montessori is good for children.

But what if I told you that it has inherent and wonderful value for adults, too? That these changes that you make--to your home, to your lifestyle, to the way you raise your children--could have inherent value for YOU, too! That’s right! Montessori: it’s not just for children.

“Little by little, it changes people.”

When Maria Montessori started planning for Directresses to lead the Casa Dei Bambini, there was a whole piece of her pedagogy that was based around the transformation of the adult. She believed that the adult must deeply examine who they are, remove and root out their own prejudices, and focus on seeing the child for who they truly are.

She believed her teachers should be scientists and saints! While her standards for adults were high, I ultimately believe they came from a hopeful place: one that believed that any person could elevate themselves to serve the child in the highest regard. I love this quote from her:

 “At first the teacher will say, ‘I have seen the child as he ought to be, and found him better than I could have ever supposed.’ This is what it means to understand infancy. It is not enough to know that this child is called John, that his father is a carpenter; the teacher must know and experience in her daily life the secret of childhood. Through this she arrives not only at a deeper knowledge but at a new kind of love which does not become attached to the individual person, but to that which lies in the hidden darkness of this secret. When the children show her their real natures, she understands perhaps for the first time, what love really is. And this revelation transforms her also. It is a thing that touches the heart, and little by little it changes people.” 

-Maria Montessori, The Absorbent Mind (p.282)

Practicing what you preach

People say that it takes an adult doing something 30 times in a row to build it into a new habit. This has been so apparent to me in my life as a Montessorian! I would not say that, pre-teaching and parenting, I was the most observant or mindful--especially of myself and my own feelings.

But this funny thing happened to me: the more I observed the children and became mindful of their needs, the more I observed myself, and became mindful of my own! The ability to sit in silence and discomfort and JUST WATCH AND WAIT for them instilled the same in me!

Similarly: if I was responsible for modeling for children the maintenance of the environment, for the modeling of care of others, for the modeling of how to handle hard emotions...it meant I had to practice them! By myself, and with the children. Each time I practiced, I internalized those skills a little bit more. Yes, the children were learning!!! But so, importantly, am I.

Mistakes are How We Grow

It’s easy sometimes though, I know, to miss all that self-learning when we are ALSO making so many mistakes. Error is a part of human existence--and everyone does it. But not everyone is given the same opportunity to be friendly with their error. Friendliness with error, an important facet of Montessori education, is simply the understanding that making mistakes is how we come to understand the right way to do something.

It’s why Maria Montessori so valued self-correcting materials, and emphasized the importance of letting children experiment with the materials as much as they needed to make their own discoveries. I know I tell children all the time: it’s okay to make mistakes! And if I really and truly believe it to be true for them...that means it must be true for me, too. I muster forgiveness for myself. I try to see the chances to learn and grow.

The World is Full of Wonder and Discovery

When you spend every day looking at the world through the eyes of a young child, it becomes impossible to ignore WONDER. The delight of reading a word for the first time, unexpectedly. The first taste of sour, bitter, sweet, salty. The knowledge that we are just one of many planets in one of many galaxies that soars through the vast expanse of space. These may lose their luster to us as we grow, but each time a child makes a new discovery, we are welcome to BEHOLD and bask in that wonder.

And speaking of discovery? In encouraging our children to learn about those things that interest them, those things that they are driven to learn, I hope we all remember that anything we want to learn more about is WORTHY OF OUR TIME and worth learning. The learning never has to stop--and what we learn doesn’t need to be dictated by what our children NEED or what our job REQUIRES. We can learn FOR US. For the pleasure of learning.

I’m so grateful for Montessori for my children. But also? I’m grateful for it for ME <3

New to Montessori? You’re going to want this dictionary!

If you’re new to Montessori and are finding some of the lingo confusing—you’re not alone! We’ve got a sweet mini-dictionary full of important terms for new Montessori parents. Check it out!

Using Minimalist Ideas in Your Montessori Home

 

I think we’ve all heard the siren call of Minimalism at some point in parenthood. The notion that minimizing your possessions means MORE time for other things is understandably appealing--especially to parents who find themselves overwhelmed with life and upkeep. There is truth to this: simplifying life CAN make things easier. And I *love* a good, simple life. 

But it is important to know that there is no SINGLE fix that can ease the juggle and struggle that is parenthood.

There are no one-size-fits-all solutions

I want you to know: I understand if Minimalism isn’t something you can’t buy into wholly—I can’t either! I like holding on to things which I know I can reuse. I cannot always afford to invest in the BEST POSSIBLE VERSION of an item knowing it will last longer.

Sometimes, I just need to buy what is accessible for us right now, even if I know it may need replacing later. Or, I need to make the best version of it that I can on my own, and let that be good enough.

I also know it is easy to get trapped by the variety of trendy Minimalism that is often featured on Social Media. It often focuses much more on the aesthetics and design of a space, rather than the practical ways in which a person (or a family!) uses it.

Whether it comes across as elitist or practical largely depends on your interpretation--but no matter what, the ability to be mindful of your belongings and mental and physical clutter at such a high level is a privilege. Being able to let go comes in part from the assurance that at some point, if you need to, you will be able to replace it. 

With all that said: I think one of the best things about being an adult is the ability to cherry-pick the pieces of a variety of lifestyles and parenting methods to find something that is uniquely YOURS. There is no such thing as 100% Minimalist, or 100% Montessori. However much of something you choose to include in your life is valid.

There IS space for Minimalism in Montessori!

If you’ve been around here for a while, you know how much I value scrappy, make-do Montessori. Though I know it may feel like that contrasts in a big way with the light and airy aesthetic of many Minimalist homes, I have to say: I think there are few things MORE minimal than reusing and repurposing materials for a variety of different uses!

That tray you used to hold the kitchen tools will be great for holding three part cards. The embroidery floss sorter makes a perfect colored bead box. Those leftover random game pieces from Sorry? They make wonderful skittles for the stamp game!

Just because it doesn’t serve the original purpose doesn’t mean it can’t serve A purpose--and both Montessori and Minimalism agree that it is important that materials be functional and purposeful.

What you have where you are right now is worthy!

Both Minimalism and Montessori have central tenets that emphasize that we do not need more STUFF to make our children's lives better or our homes more worthy. Maria Montessori made materials from what she had on hand; scraps of wood (hello, Sandpaper Letters!), silk thread (looking at you, color tablets!), creamer containers (oh, precious child-sized pitchers!).

Whatever you have on hand RIGHT NOW: it is valuable, and worthy, and can be worked with.  There is no master list of Montessori OR Minimalist must-haves that validate your use of the practice in your home, and there are no trends you are beholden to. 

Creativity Wins!

When you stop focusing on the things you NEED to have to live a certain lifestyle, you can start looking at what you ALREADY have that can serve the purpose! It means that you can learn the patience of doing without and the gift of how to make new, wonderful things from what already exists. Once you start challenging yourself to make choices based on what you HAVE instead of what you WANT, you activate your problem solving skills--and you model the value of those skills for your children.

Living with a Generous Heart

It also means that when you have used something well and truly, in all the ways you can use it, you can pass it along to another family--not because you just want it out of your hair and cannot imagine it being in your life anymore, but because you know it can serve purpose and bring joy to other people, too. When you start understanding the spiritual value of the various things you own, it makes it easier to understand what can be a treasure for someone else.

Practical Tips for Embracing Minimalism in your Montessori Home

If all of this sounds like something you might like to try in YOUR home, you can take a look at my FREE Downloadable Checklist, “A Montessori Look at Minimalism.” It is full of ideas for ways to adjust your environment AND your thinking to a more minimalist approach.

Five Tips for the Montessori Beginner

So you want to do Montessori in the home but aren't sure where to start. Maybe you follow those Instagram feeds filled with achingly beautiful photos of some fantastical Montessori home and think "if only I knew the secret, my house, too, could look like that." Perhaps you've toured a Montessori classroom, beautifully prepared with neat shelves of learning materials and thought, "if they can do it with 17 kids, certainly I can do it with just one!"

Well, I have some bad news and some good news. The bad news is you can't replicate the Photoshopped fantasy nor the carefully managed classroom. The good news is you aren't supposed to. Montessori is much more a philosophy of child development than a set of things to do. Plus, you're doing it in your home -- under real world conditions. Expect the mess. 

So where does that leave the aspiring Montessorian?

Mastering the philosophy can be a life's pursuit, but there are a few tips you can incorporate right away to help you along the way. You might now 

#1. Follow your child 

This is number one for a reason. Learning new skills will not occur without your child's interest. Following your child means seriously observing your child's stage of development.

What toys does your child keep coming back to over and over? What is he/she trying to do? Learning to crawl? Pouring and spilling water everywhere? Spending hours turning the pages of a book? Going to the potty to (ahem) play in it? Catching bugs constantly? Picking out a shirt to wear, discarding it, only to put on another shirt?

I can't tell you what activities to focus on in your Montessori home because that's your child's job. Many classroom teachers will tell you that they can't truly design the shelves without meeting the children and observing them. This is even more important for you, Montessori parent, because unlike a classroom filled with child centered, ready made curricula, you are incorporating your child into a family-centric environment.

You most likely have limited resources and space, so focus on your child's interests. You can (and will!) change the environment as your child grows older and has different needs. Write down a list of your child's current obsessions, whether it be banging pots, throwing blocks, or matching colors, and ask yourself, "What is he/she trying to learn from this behavior?"

#2. Invest in shelves and baskets

While you're not likely to achieve immaculate, you do want to make your Montessori environment as organized and peaceful as reasonable. It also keeps your house from becoming too cluttered with random kid stuff because you can't stuff everything on a few shelves like you can in, say, a toy chest or some bins.

Unlike toy chests, shelves naturally encourage you to limit quantity.

Shelves are cheaply found at stores like IKEA and Target plus garage sales and thrift stores. You can find excellent baskets at Goodwill for less than a dollar. If you can afford it, invest in several shelves and LOTS of baskets and trays. Check out our Montessori shopping list to get a better idea of what to look for at a thrift store.

Remember, you don't have to get everything at once. Start with baskets and shelves. You won't be disappointed.

#3. Choose some of your child's nicest toys 

Toys are fine when the quality and quantity is appropriate. If adding toys, pick ones your child loves; that inspire and nurture; and (if at all possible) are beautiful and made of natural materials. Likewise, steer clear of flashy, noisy, battery-operated toys as much as possible and focus on toys that spark your child's imagination.

And the toys that you aren't choosing to put on your beautiful shelves? You don't have to throw the rest away, but do keep them away from your child's shelves, hidden wherever you have available. A closet? The basement? The laundry room? Giant plastic storage tubs are great for this, as are heavy-duty black garbage bags, as long as you have them labeled "not trash"!

And if you find yourself acquiring a massive amount of toys, it's a great idea to donate them in batches regularly.

#4. Limit quantity

If you have a toddler, you probably won't be needing all 286 blocks that came with the set. You might need about 20. Just enough to stack into towers and topple down. Put those in a basket and store the rest. You also don't want to crowd your shelves. Space the baskets on the shelves so that it is obvious where the work should be returned.

Space the baskets on the shelves so that it is obvious where the work should be returned.

Are you wondering how many toys to put out at a time? I can't tell you that, but your child will. If you have a toddler who is into "dumping" making a big awful mess for you to clean up every time, or if you have a four year old who is having a hard time putting things away, you probably have too many toys.

You also might want to select one type of toy and rotate within the category. For example, if you have a lot of puzzles or different sets of building blocks, consider displaying one or two and put the rest away for now.

#5. Get Support

You can't make this journey alone. You need help! Start with spouses, partners, or others who are actively participating in raising your child, such as grandparents. The goal is to have a shared vision for what Montessori in your home looks like. This may require you to have some hard, deep conversations -- especially if your partner isn't totally onboard -- but it's critical.

Go further, though, and reach out to friends and other parents. Talk to them about what you're doing, even if you aren't completely confident in it. In fact, talking about it will help you better understand your own perspective and dissolve the feeling of isolation so common in parenting. 

Lastly, look for mentors in other places. The Internet is filled with wonderful resources for parents at any stage of their Montessori journey, including our own Montessori 101 Facebook group. Join the conversation! 

I’m Sorry, But It’s Just Not Montessori

The internet is a treasure trove of Montessori goodness.

Finally, after years and years of obscurity in the education field, our little niche is POPULAR. I love it! My goal has always been to make Montessori mainstream, and it’s happening!

But as everyone knows, popularity has its drawbacks. What is popular is not necessarily authentic.

“Montesomething” products are all the rage. Toy-makers and online stores know well that if you put the word “Montessori” in front of your product, it’s likely to have a certain appeal for parents.

And what appeal is that?

Smart. Sophisticated. High quality. Trendy. I can’t blame them for doing it!

In my work as a parent coach, I work hard to help Montessori-loving parents distinguish the genuine Montessori materials from the not-so-Montessori products and activities. Sometimes it’s hard to tell.

Here I’ve written down a few of the items I commonly see advertised to parents as “Montessori” that are not actually Montessori items.

Sensory Bins

A big bowl of beans is an invitation to the senses! I had one in my classroom long ago with some hidden objects inside. Oh, how good it feels to me even as an adult! I still stand by this activity for children of all ages.

However, whether a sensory bin is a Montessori thing or not depends on its intended use.

Many sensory bins are intentional combinations of textures, colors, sounds, and smells. You might see a bin suggestion online full of nature items like pinecones sprinkled with cinnamon, pom-pom balls, plastic animals, and a handful of rainbow rice thrown in for good measure.

This is the opposite of the Montessori approach because it easily overwhelms the child.

A tip from me to you: If you offer a bin of...stuff...try to isolate the senses.

Play Kitchens

Cabinets to open and close and tiny utensils to sort and bang together and put objects (like play food) into offers many opportunities for the child’s natural development.

But if you ask us Montessorians, we will tell you that those opportunities all exist in your regular kitchen space if you simply allow your child to cook with you and get items out of your cabinets.

Making food preparation skill development consistently available to your child satiates the need to play more than any play kitchen ever could.

Play Sinks

A few years back the Montessori internet communities blew up with excited photos of this plastic play sink from big box stores that recycles water from the “drain” back up to the spout and down again.

It seems Montessori because we obviously love it when children are offered more ways to be independent. Washing hands can be tough at a big sink way up high for little hands. The plastic sink seems to encourage this kind of independence, and yet I have some big concerns.

First, the re-used water does not offer children a truly sanitary washing experience. Beware of the potential bacteria colonies hanging out at the bottom and being recycled up to the top.

Second, children can have a world of fun in their own bathtubs, playing in a real sink by using a stool or learning tower, or simply with a plain, cheap plastic tub filled with water.

There is no need to buy a child a toy that looks like the real thing yet does not perform as well as the real thing. Want to do it the Montessori way? Just use the real thing!

Busy Boards

In order to teach children certain practical life skills, we often isolate them and allow children to practice repeatedly. We offer dressing frames so that children can learn how to button, tie, and zip. We offer screwdrivers and screws so that children can learn how to use this tool. We give a child a flashlight and encourage the batteries to be taken out and put back in.

These Montessori-aligned activites also benefit the child by strengthening the hand and refining the pincer grip. It’s lovely.

Sometimes online (and in products) I see this practical life emphasis taken to an extreme. Instead of a carefully constructed, focused skill-based toy, like the “lock box”, I see a big wooden board with a million things to ding, crank, zip, shake, fasten, and the like.

It’s probably not terrible for a child, and I can definitely imagine how much fun it would be for an adult to make, but it’s simply not how we would present these skills in Montessori.


Busy Books

Often made of fabric and other crafty scraps, busy books invite children to practice their fine motor skills while in a car or on a long plane ride.

There’s really nothing wrong with them if appropriately constructed, but in Montessori, we generally prefer that these fine motor skills be practiced in a more direct, separate way that leads the child to doing real work in real life.

We also resent the idea that children need to be “kept busy”. Let them find their own fun!

Random Stuff Made of Wood

Is it made of wood? That’s good! We like natural materials.

Wood can feel good in the hand and mouth (if teething). It can also often be environmentally sustainable (unlike plastic). But just because something is made of wood doesn’t mean it’s Montessori!

I’d personally choose a plastic toy that is beautiful, appeals to the child’s sense of order, and isolates a certain quality over a wooden toy that confuses the eye, “teaches” many concepts at one time, and is made with questionable paint that chips off easily. That’s the way we look at toys from the Montessori perspective.

Rainbows

Hey, we love a good rainbow like everyone else!

In my home, you’ll see a prism hanging by the window and a rainbow stacker on the shelf to play with...but that doesn’t mean that a pretty, rainbow-colored toy is a Montessori “thing”.

It might add to the aesthetic nature of the “prepared environment”, and it might be a high-quality toy itself that is Montessori compatible, but don’t fixate on those rainbows as an essential. They aren’t!

Teepee Tents

I don’t know why these took the early childhood product market by storm, but I’m going to be very clear here. There is nothing specifically “Montessori” about a teepee tent. They are a decorative item sold online and in local stores for children’s bedrooms.

Do you have one already? Listen up. The Native Peoples / indigenous community online have been extremely vocal that this is cultural appropriation.

It is my personal opinion and high hope that most parents do not know this (otherwise they would not be purchasing them). Please do your research on this topic.

Reading nooks, home-made forts, pop-up tents and other ways to give children a little space of their own are all Montessori compatible as a part of the “prepared environment”.

Waldorf Crafts

When my children were little and I decided to stay at home with them, I found myself needing to be crafty. Enter: Waldorf.

I did it all, friends. The peg dolls, the rainbows, the gnomes, the beeswax, the wet-on-wet watercoloring, the homemade playsilks, and even the wool needle felting.

It was really good for me, and it was fun for my child to participate with me, so it was part of our lives, but...that crafty stuff isn’t “Montessori”. It can be very well aligned, but again, it depends heavily on your purpose for including it.

Educational Posters

If there were a big red-flag that screamed “not Montessori”, it would be in the form of an educational poster!

Donate these or recycle them and go for some pretty artwork hung down low so your child can see them, okay?

There is no need to hang something on the wall. If you want to teach your child a specific skill or developmentally appropriate abstract idea, use the three period lesson with some real objects.

House Floorbeds

The adorable “house” floor bed is a great example of a Montessori principle (floor beds) that went bananas on Pinterest and Instagram. Instead of simply putting a mattress on the floor like I did, parents are trying to one-up each other with the cuteness factor.

I cannot deny that they are cute! Montessori, they are not.

Want a Montessori floor bed? Go simple. Either put the mattress on the floor directly, or, if you are concerned about mold/mildew, on a very low platform frame that takes it just barely off the ground.

I know it seems like less fun, and you will not win the extra likes on IG, but your child will be super happy to be able to get in and out of bed independently, and that is the Montessori point.

Pikler Triangles

Gross motor skill equipment is wonderful for children of all ages! Small ladders, slides, stairs, big pieces of foam to crawl up and roll down…you might find any of these in a Montessori environment prepared for babies and toddlers.

The pikler triangle is one such piece of equipment that may nurture a child’s physical development.

It’s on this list because while cool, the origin is not from the Maria Montessori legacy: it’s from the Emmi Pikler legacy, who was the inspiration for Magda Gerber’s work. Gerber is the founder of the RIE (Resources for Infant Educarers) organization. Many Montessorians find RIE compatible with the Montessori approach to working with infants and toddlers.

So let’s give credit where credit is due, eh?

Alphabet Toys for Children Under Two

As we mentioned earlier, adding “educational value” to a toy in an obvious way gets more sales. There is absolutely no reason why children under the age of two need the letters of the alphabet or numbers randomly placed on their toys.

In fact, it’s unnecessarily distracting from what your little baby or toddler is trying to learn right now. The alphabet can come later. Right now, life is all about those gross and fine motor skills. Don’t clutter it up with letters.

Later, when your child is ready to learn to read (typically age 3 at the earliest), I strongly suggest you invest in or make a set of tactile “sandpaper” letters, a sand tray, and a moveable alphabet.

That’s the real way to teach reading in Montessori.

Want to teach Montessori math? Wait until they’re four!

Now You Know

If some of the toys or products are your child’s favorites (or your favorites) just because they aren’t technically Montessori does not mean that they cannot have a place in your Montessori-inspired home.

As your child’s guide, you can make decisions about what aids development and what doesn’t! Trust your instincts.

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Learn what Montessori IS! Download our free Mini-Dictionary of Montessori terms, specifically created for Montessori parents.

Rewards and Punishments are Not Montessori. Period.

 

We are all born human, but we are not born with a destiny for exactness in body, mind, or heart. Learning how to communicate with others and exist peacefully in one’s society starts from birth and never ends.

We always have work to do to nurture our relationships with others. All of us. It’s deep, intense, and satisfying work.

Maria Montessori recognized this, and her approach with children was revolutionary in this particular aspect.

As parents, we want the best for our children, and when we see them “misbehaving” — or behaving in a way that is socially unacceptable or harmful to themselves or others — we understandably look for a way to stop it as quickly and effectively as possible.

Methods and systems using a rewards-based or punishment (external consequences-based) approach with children promise to do just this: change a child’s behavior by giving immediate positive or negative feedback.

This does not align with the Montessori approach to guiding children.

Here are some examples of methods that are incompatible with Montessori. This is not an all inclusive list but was written to help you understand some common misconceptions.

  1. Sleep Training / CIO methods. In Montessori, we do not “train” children to go to sleep. Isolating a child and allowing crying until he/she has learned helplessness is a form of punishment. Instead, the Montessori approach focuses on assisting a child to sleep in gentle ways by making sure that they feel safe, secure, and loved. Whether you cosleep or whether your child sleeps in a crib or in a floor bed, a gentle approach should be used.

  2. Time-outs. In Montessori, we do not put children in corners, special chairs, or isolate them for a certain number of minutes. “Time-in” is a Montessori compatible approach. If a child is hurting themselves or the environment or another child, we do remove them from the situation for safety — but this would be done with the intent of protecting the child from harm, not punishing a child. Not ever.

  3. Potty Training. We do not “train” children. We help them learn to use the potty or toilet in their own time without treats/candy/stickers. We NEVER punish them for accidents. We encourage our children by wiping up spills without making a big fuss about it and we trust our children to learn in their own way, in their own time, with our guidance and support.

  4. Training Methods. We do not use therapy methods or behavior-changing methods that use a “training” approach, including direct coercion, verbal or physical manipulation, rewards, or consequences that make a child feel unduly stressed by forcing them to respond in a singularly-acceptable way.

In particular, many members of the autistic community have spoken up to advocate for the rights of children and would like all parents to be aware that ABA therapy is one such method that uses the rewards/punishments-based approach above.

If you are a parent who is currently seeking help for your child using ABA therapy, or if you are considering it, please note that because it is rewards/punishments based, it is NOT compatible with Montessori, and furthermore, the children who grew up with this method used on them would like to speak up on behalf of their younger selves and on behalf of the young children today who perhaps cannot communicate the severity of what is happening to them in these therapy sessions.

As adults, these members have no doubt that this method caused them a great deal of emotional harm. As parents and educators, we would be wise to listen to them and educate ourselves on this issue.

All children deserve to feel safe, loved, respected, and empowered. THAT is Montessori.

What To Look For In a Montessori School

 

Every time a parent asks me “how will I know if it’s a good Montessori school?” I rejoice. I know that these are parents who understand that Montessori is not a trademarked name, and that anyone can open a Montessori school, a Montessori toy shop, or even a Montessori appliance warehouse. I know that these are parents who want to learn. Most importantly, I know that these are parents who want a quality education for their children, and are willing to do the work it takes to find it.

It is not always easy to find the right school. It can be awfully confusing, for someone new to the Montessori world and all its letter organizations. How is a parent who is just getting started with the basics of Montessori philosophy to understand the fine differences in philosophy between the various accrediting bodies? What is a parent to do when there are no accredited schools in the area? And is accreditation really a guarantee of quality?

Accreditation, more than anything, means that a school meets a certain set of criteria, and has the resources (human and otherwise) to undergo the accreditation process. Schools that are not accredited are not necessarily lacking - they simply have chosen not to undergo the process. When visiting a school, it may lend some insight to ask why they chose to be accredited by a particular organization, or why they chose not to seek accreditation.

So how do you know if it’s a good Montessori school? Here are some of the things I look for in a school to assess whether it is a quality Montessori program:

  • mixed age classrooms in accordance with Montessori's planes of development. (birth to walking, walking to 18 months, 18 months to 3 years, 3-6 years, 6-9 and 9-12 or 6-12, 12-15, 15-18).

  • teachers who are certified to teach the age level they work with (or have certification for another age and are in the process of training

  • a calm, peaceful atmosphere

  • a commitment to the development of inner discipline through non-behavioural techniques (ie, no stars, reward charts, time-outs or any other kind of reward or punishment)

  • a commitment to the uninterrupted 3-hour work period

  • a full set of materials in good shape

  • mostly natural materials in all areas of the school (if there's a ton of plastic, even in the hallways or the office, It's not the right place for me - and this is very personal, it doesn't mean it won't be a good program overall)

  • solid transition routines, to start the school year and on a daily basis (How do they manage moving from the work period to lunch? What is the morning greeting/drop-off routine? Is there a transition in September for new students?)

  • walls that are almost bare at adult-level, but beautifully and sparsely decorated at child-level.

  • older children who are confident, calm, polite, sociable and able to carry on a conversation with you as a visiting parent.

Most Montessori schools will offer an observation as part of the enrollment process. I strongly recommend taking the opportunity to sit in a working classroom. It is the single best way of getting to know a school, teacher, and classroom.

I also recommend asking to talk to the teachers, to get a sense of who they are, and whether they are passionate and respectful when speaking about their students. You can also ask to talk to current and past parents, and to older students and alumni. Speaking with the older students is invaluable - they reflect in their very beings what the school brings forth in them. Look at the oldest students in every school you visit and ask yourself “is this what I want my child to be like at that age?” That is probably the single most important indicator of whether a school offers a quality educational experience, and whether it will be a good fit for your family.

For further reading, I highly recommend the website of the Canadian Council of Montessori Administrators (one of those accrediting organizations), in particular this article on Choosing a Montessori School and this one titled What is Authentic Montessori.

What it always comes down to, though, is this: Does it feel like a place you and your child will be comfortable? That's what you want, more than anything!